Few thoughts

Long-term Relationship

 

There have been several ups and downs and numerous bumps in the way to a successful long-term relationship. There are compromises and backlashes from a bitter misunderstanding but at the end what matter is the honey that oozes out from the wounds. The great feelings while driving back home after a bad day at work. The expectation that every sensation will always be rightly appreciated as they know you so well. The ability to share every small redundant thing with them which is so important to you for some submerged emotion attached to that.

One of the essential ingredients of a long-term relationship is mutual competitiveness. Individuals are competitive only with their equals. From that comes the mutual respect. So even when you are feeling extreme hatred towards the other your respect will hold you from making an abusive assault on your partner. Another ingredient is the feelings for each other. From that comes sharing of responsibility and liability to make each other’s life equally enchanting and enjoyable.

A long-term relationship gives you the promise that when you woke up in the morning at least one thing you feel great about is your partner and your children who are your utmost motivation for your life. Whatever you achieve in life nothing can give you more pleasure than a warm loving kiss.

In this fast life when we spend more time with unknown/half-known people through social media we should take a step back and think what are we achieving from that. Are we getting happier or becoming a victim of our own blunders? Isn’t it more important that we should do things in life not to share with others but to be happy for ourselves? Why do we need to share our personal photographs with unknown people? Why are we looking for recognition from others, is it because we are not getting attention at home? If we are looking for a long-term relation then definitely we need to change the trend. Try to spend time together by sharing the daily chores and grab every opportunity to be together with the person you love.

Life is extremely unpredictable and may cut short without giving any warning. Some small steps that is all required to make it happen like starting the day with coffee or breakfast together. After a long day enjoy a walk in the nature or exercise or swim together. Then prepare a meal and enjoy the food in a laidback way. Life is more meaningful when lived for oneself and for one’s own fulfillment. It is much worthwhile to invest time and effort on a long-term relation rather than short-term highs coming from a facebook like or share. Exploring new places are never more enjoyable when shared with someone who is enjoying it exactly the same way as you. Live life as if tomorrow will never come and enjoy what you have.